LENT: Week five, Tuesday: Either/Or

immigrant - National Museum of Mexican Art, Chicago

People who have never loved or never suffered will normally try to control everything with an either-or attitude, or all-or-nothing thinking. The closed system is all they’re prepared for. The mentality that divides the world into “deserving and undeserving” has never been let go of by any experiences of grace or undeserved mercy. This absence leaves them judgmental, demanding, unforgiving, and weak in empathy and sympathy. They remain inside of the prison of meritocracy, where all has to be deserved. Remember, however to be patient with such people, even if you are the target of their judgment, because on some level that is how they treat themselves as well .

Richard Rohr, in The Naked Now

 

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Posted on 04/12/2011, in LENT and tagged , , . Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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